Friday, July 27, 2012
I said, "It is safe, isn't it?"
Friday, July 20, 2012
They took us to an amazing onsen in the mountains. We soaked for hours, then were treated to a meal that was more like an art piece. Dishes of every shape held different delicacies (six green beans in one dish, three pickles in another, two pieces of fresh fish in a third.) Halfway through the meal, we were asked to go to the window of the restaurant. Outside the window was a mountain and halfway up the mountain was a stage. The owner of the onsen danced "Life is a Dream." It was a dream.
The following day, we went to see bull-fighting. Well, not really. They weren't fighting the day we went. But it was the place where bullfighting originated (thousands of years ago), back when there was no television, movies, entertainment of any kind.
In 2004, the county suffered a huge earthquake. In fact our friend said he was lucky to have been off with his family visiting their summer home. Otherwise they would have been stuck in town where there was no electiricity or water for three weeks.
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
They took us to Iidabshii to visit a special shrine which is all the rage in Japan--a shrine where you pray for the power of love. It was filled with young women, and my two sons were two of the only men there, much to their embarassment. They weren't quite sure what to do and weren't quite sure how this shrine differed from the other one we had gone to. I wasn't either, except that this one didn't have the bamboo circle.
At the first regular old shrine, there was a Tori gate at the entrance and our friends were all excited to see this large round circle made of bamboo. It was large enough to walk through, and there were directions right next to it. Bow, walk in to the left and circle back around. Bow again, walk through to the right and circle back around. Bow again, walk through to the left and circle back around. Bow and walk forward to make your prayer.
For some reason I kept thinking of the Hokey-Pokey. Walk around to the left. Bow. Around to the right. Bow. Do the hokey pokey and turn yourself around. I asked our friends what this was all about--they had no idea.
I said, "Perhaps it is a practical joke to see how many people will just follow the directions, no matter how silly they seem."
Oh, no, no, no.
One of our friends asked a person working at the shrine. Apparently it is for purification, and by doing the left-right-left dance you become pure before meeting God. They only put it out twice a year. So we were lucky to have had this chance.
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
At the onsen--a public bathing area--men and women go to their respective areas, shed their clothes, wash off under spigots, then soak in various hot baths which are created from hot springs. My husband said we were going there with uncle and aunty, and even a male friend who was planning to stop by to meet us after his work. My eldest son picked up his bathing suit.
"Oh, you won't need that," my husband said.
My son's eyes grew wide. "I don't think I want to go," he said. "I'll just wait here."
"Don't be a wuss." Younger brother said. He was at a hot springs two years ago and got to be the voice of experience.
All the way there, nervous voices asked what was going to happen. But, once we got there, we couldn't drag the kids out. Is that a familar bath story?
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
"What's the matter?" I called.
My brother-in-law looked up, concerned.
"Are you alright?" I called again.
"My retainer," she said, tears forming. "I don't have my retainer."
She had left her retainer in a napkin on the table in the restaurant at the airport.
Oh, gosh. We'd never find that. Never.
My older daughter said, "I think you better translate this debacle, cause he thinks she just doesn't like the juice."
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