Monday, January 5, 2009

Give Yourself Time to Do Enjoy

Happy New Year. I hope you enjoyed the holidays. We had a house of twelve, relatives from the midwest and southern CA, and we enjoyed so much--endless games of Scrabble and Charades and Ghost--that this morning everyone left the house as though going off for a lethal injection.

One of our interesting trips was to San Francisco. Initially, I wasn't planning to go. I had a thousand other things to do (send off Holiday cards, read a manuscript, figure out dinner.) However, my favorite sister-in-law insisted I join. As we were a big group (11) we took two cars, and I told my husband we should just meet the rest of the crew for lunch in Chinatown and then come home.

I had forgotten what a vortex Chinatown is. There are so many things to see (people were playing ancient instruments on the street the day we went). So many shops to browse--the fresh vegetable shops, the medicine store (we needed our cold medicine 999), the inexpensive luggage place, the Chinese New Year store, etc.

We didn't stay as long as we wished and we still got home later than our relatives. In fact, by the time we got back, they had fixed dinner.

I had to laugh at myself. I'm always doing this. Most often with writing. Often I just want to get the day's writing done, done, done, as I have a dozen other things on my plate. I don't allow myself time to enjoy and explore the scene or the character, instead rushing in with "only enough time for lunch." I end up feeling cheated ...and still late to pick up the kids from school.

So, in this New Year, lets give ourselves time to do the important things well. And to Enjoy.

**One great book I read over the holidays was Fortune Catcher
by Susanne Pari. The story focuses on what happens when life as you've come to know it becomes illegal, immoral, a reason for your death. Laylee, a woman born in Iran but raised in both Iran and the US, returns one year with her Iranian fiance to marry, and the country they knew and loved had disappeared and been replaced by religious fanatics. A fascinating read.

**Hope to see you at the opening of the Milpitas Library this Saturday, 1pm at 160 North Main Street, Milpitas. :)


Anonymous said...

I'm sitting here just getting ready to reaquaint myself with the MC in my new WIP (Sorry to be so acronym-heavy!), and I'm feeling just like this. I was going to dig in and write a scene, but I'm just going to look through my notes, punch a written scene into the binder, and say "hi." See what comes. :)

Jana McBurney-Lin said...

What is an MC? A WIP? I'm trying to think what they might be...a Male Courier? A Wand In Progress? Please tell us more.

Anonymous said...

This is a fun game--mega chicken? wild inner person? :)

Main Character.
Work in Progress (of which, thanks to ANOTHER idea today, I now have FOUR!!!!)

Jana McBurney-Lin said...

I like Wild Inner Person...and the idea of reacquainting yourself with that WIP. But no, you reaquainted with the Mega-chicken. Oh well. Four wips? That sounds fun...or overwhelming...but mostly fun. Here's to your creativity!

Anonymous said...

Overwhelming, definitely. But in that good, sick way!

Lynn said...

OK, slightly off topic from the WIPS and MCs, but have you read Wallace Stegner's book "On Teaching and Writing Fiction"? I just finished it and think you'd really like it. About being willing to take criticism on your work (or rather your WIP): "The essentials are only two: taking a piece of writing seriously; and criticizing it with a view to helping it be what it wants to be. It cannot be done without some degree of abrasion. You don't sharpen a knife on a cake of soap."

I hope you'll fill us in on your next blog entry about the Milpitas library opening :) Must . . . have . . . details. :)

Jana McBurney-Lin said...

I love that analogy--about not being able to sharpen a knife on a cake of soap. I'll have to read the rest. Thanks.

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