Monday, March 2, 2009

Dealing with Our -Isms

I took part in a fascinating panel at the Indian Business and Professional Women Council discussing Silicon Valley Reads Not a Genuine Black Man by Brian Copeland and the heavier outcome: race relations in the US...and the world. I was really pleased to be part of this panel, as the central theme of my novel, My Half of the Sky, is how do we reconcile traditional thoughts (and fears) with the reality of the moment?
The other panelists included journalists, Mike Swift
Diana Rohini ,and De Anza Professor Ulysses Pichon.
Moderator Shubangyi Vaidya asked us what part of Copeland's book reminded us of our lives. Copeland grew up in San Leandro, an all-black family in an an all-white neighborhood. His mother had trouble getting their apartment (and keeping it.) To that part of the book, I could totally relate.
When my Chinese husband and I went looking for our first apartment in Japan, we ventured outside of Tokyo (where it was cheaper and greener). In fact, we traveled willy-nilly on the train until we saw enough greenery. When we got off the train, there were three real estate agencies beckoning to us with huge advertisements for lovely apartments. But when we walked into the first one, they said, 'Oh, we have nothing right now. Sorry."
We walked into the second place and got the same response.
"This is too strange," I thought. "Something else is going on."
At the third place, I asked my husband--who spoke Japanese fluently and who had lived in Japan long enough to look the part (short spiky hair, jeans, clunky shoes)--to please go in without me. This time there were plenty of apartments.
What had been the problem? Foreigners, the agent explained. Foreigners weren't raised the same as Japanese. They made big grease fires, cooked smelly foods, left a huge mess...needed special permission to live.
Our IBPW panel, after hours of discussing various experiences at home and abroad, came to no ground-breaking solutions to the issue of Fear of Others. We concluded:
1) There is no innoculation against racism. We need to just keep addressing the issue over and over and over again.
2) It's not just about color, but about ethnicity--traditions, language, culture. (We didn't even get started on religions.)
3) It's important to constantly question our -isms: racism, sexism, agism, homophobism, etc. Why do we act and react the way we do?

Do you have any experiences to share? Any thoughts to add?


beth said...

OMG! Wow...I never even really thought of racism in real estate in that way. What an interesting story...

Jana McBurney-Lin said...

Beth, thanks for dropping by. I enjoyed reading your interview. You need to read Not a Genuine Black Man by Brian Copeland. It talks all about the "planned communities," planned in the sense of keeping certain races out.

Anonymous said...

I try to listen to my dad, who did his three months air force training in the south in the early sixties. He says it has gotten better. I think he's probably right--our new president is some evidence of that--but I do wish sometimes that it would happen faster.

I LOVED Brian's book. It blew me away, because we're about the same age (right, Jana?), we grew up about six hours away in the same state, and my world was so extremely safe and sheltered; it felt about as opposite from what Brian describes as possible. Just makes what he went through feel even more wrong.

Anonymous said...

And, Jana, I'm sorry you had to go through it, too!

Jana McBurney-Lin said...

My mom says it's gotten better, too. She's comparing today to the race riots in Chicago in the 60s (during which she crossed the police barrier to bring food to the blacks). Still, I think you have to keep upping the bar. Making continuous improvement.
That's interesting the comparison you make with your upbringing--strange how a few hours distance makes such a difference.
As for my experience, it wasn't devastating so much as interesting. I was young and in love and everything was an adventure...and besides that, my hubby got us past the snag by looking and talking the right way.

Anonymous said...

Jana, I was just reading about those riots--so nasty. Give your mom a huge hug for me when you see her next.

Jana McBurney-Lin said...

Ah, that's right. You're doing Chicago history now. I'll pass the hug. Thanks.

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